Haa keh du....

Dil me hai ek baat..
Tum pucho toh keh dun….
Khole hum jazbaat..
Tum samjho to keh dun….
Jaane anjaane yun hum tum mil baithe….
Jo karo tum bhi iqraar..
To main bhi Haan keh dun….
Waqt aaj aur abhi hai..
Kal ka kya bharosa..
Shayd main naa rahun….
Dil me hai ek baat..
Tum pucho toh keh dun….

Akele aap yun socha karte hai..
Kya hum bhi aapko yaad karte hain?
Shayad haan…. Shayad naah….
Ek baar chehre se jhuth bhi bolein
Par dil kehta hai sach keh dun….
Hum tumse ehhsaanson ke girafth me bandhe yun..
Ki tum hume humse zyada jaan ne lage ho..
Jhuth lage hum tumhe..
Jo abb bhi Naah keh dun….

To kyun na aake thaam lo hume yun..
Jaise subeh ki dhoop thaame seher ko..
Jaise aag se tapeh badan toh..
Kaano me tumhare yun..
Aah se dheema Haan keh dun..
Dil ki yahi baat tumhe..
Lage jo thodi naram thodi garam..
Yun Aah se dheema Haan keh dun….
Aah se dheema Haan keh dun….

Saaf Suthraa " KABHI KABHI "

मैं और मेरा रूममेट अक्सर ये बातें करते हैं,
घर साफ होता तो कैसा होता.
मैं किचन साफ करता तुम बाथरूम धोते,
तुम हॉल साफ करते मैं बालकनी देखता.
लोग इस बात पर हैरान होते,
उस बात पर कितने हँसते.
मैं और मेरा रूममेट अक्सर ये बातें करते हैं.

यह हरा-भरा सिंक है या बर्तनों की जंग छिड़ी हुई है,
ये कलरफुल किचन है या मसालों से होली खेली हुई है.
है फ़र्श की नई डिज़ाइन या दूध, बियर से धुली हुई हैं.

ये सेलफोन है या ढक्कन,
स्लीपिंग बैग है या किसी का आँचल.
ये एयर-फ्रेशनर का नया फ्लेवर है या ट्रैश-बैग से आती बदबू.
ये पत्तियों की है सरसराहट या हीटर फिर से खराब हुआ है.
ये सोचता है रूममेट कब से गुमसुम,
के जबकि उसको भी ये खबर है
कि मच्छर नहीं है, कहीं नहीं है.
मगर उसका दिल है कि कह रहा है
मच्छर यहीं है, यहीं कहीं है.

तोंद की ये हालत मेरी भी है उसकी भी,
दिल में एक तस्वीर इधर भी है, उधर भी.
करने को बहुत कुछ है, मगर कब करें हम,
इसके लिए टाइम इधर भी नहीं है, उधर भी नहीं.

दिल कहता है कोई वैक्यूम क्लीनर ला दे,
ये कारपेट जो जीने को जूझ रहा है, फिकवा दे.
हम साफ रह सकते हैं, लोगों को बता दें

Taking care of the “baccha” inside you…. The child we were once, continues to live inside us influencing every thought, every emotion, every movement and every action. Many of us in adult bodies still react like children, still attached to parents, never having broken free from the attitudes and beliefs acquired in youth. This inner baccha(child) is part of our personality which is playful and spontaneous, having fun and craving to be cared and understood. Like a real child, the inner baccha is starved of love, warmth and understanding, is easily hurt and may become depressed and withdrawn. Psychologists say that the inner child is a permanent fixture and those who become hurt easily or depressed on an innocent remark are still preserving that inner child demonstrating the traits through their behaviour. Jiddu Krishnamurthy during one of his sermons narrated the story of two monks- One old and the other young. They reached a river bank at sunset and saw a young woman sitting helpless as the last boat had already left. She was frightened too because of the surrounding forest area where wild animals roamed about and came to the river to drink water. Realising her predicament, the elder monk volunteered to carry her across the river, the water being shallow. After reaching the opposite bank, the Monk put her down and the two monks renewed their conversation while proceeding to the monastery. After a while, the young Monk told the older One: “You should not have carried that woman across the river as you have violated the rules of celibacy”. The elder Monk replied: “I put her down an hour ago but you are still carrying her in your thoughts”. The elder Monk has his aldult mould and the younger one still carried the child within. We all know that the past is dead but we carry it in our thoughts. Man can change only if the past is detached, forgotten or erased. There are some people who recall and relieve their past days, expand the sorrow and make themselves miserable. We can’t have a better tomorrow if we are thinking about yesterday all the time. There are some who breakaway from the routine and do something innovative and new, which again is the inner child playing games with new ideas. Sir Julian Huxley said: “It is all too obvious that in the great majority of human beings, the greater part of their possibilities, whether physical, spiritual, intellectual or aesthetic, remains unrealized”. To enjoy a better life, we must focus on our potential, not our limitations and concentrate on what we do well. We must exploit our natural abilities and aptitudes. The world is full of unsuccessful people who have talent but lack confidence and tenacity, who feel that no matter how good they are at something, someone else is bound to be better. But, what prevents this individual to become better than before, higher than before and attract recognition than before? Benjamin Franklin, one of the signatories of the American Declaration of Independence made a list of 17 personal qualities and habits, which he wanted to acquire. He realized that he need not to attempt all the 17 in one go. He worked on one, then another and mastered the 17 habits and completed the entire cycle three times in a year. EPICTETUS wrote: “Nothing great is created suddenly any more than a bunch of grapes. If you say to me that you desire grapes, that requires time. Let it first blossom, bear fruits and then ripen”. Two important qualities essential for man are patience and persistence. Lasting change takes time and when the going gets tough, how much better we feel when we achieve something worthwhile by sticking to it. Thousands of people have talents. But the question is how many of us have the patience to discover it through persistence and staying power? People who take risks invite failure but at the end it is success, when we stay with it. Henry Ford the car-maker said: “Failure is the opportunity to begin again, more intelligently”. When we take the plunge, few feel terrified but within a short time, we are able to do everything which we had set out to do. Confident self-talk helps us feel better to handle problems more easily. Words and sentences that imply that we are helpless and incapable or interpreting that things are worse than they actually are, feeds the person with potentially damaging ammunition creating negative thoughts and negative results”. Issaac Bashevis Singer wrote: “If you keep on saying that things are going to be bad, you have a good chance of being a Prophet”. Two qualities that are essential for bulding a happy and fulfilling life are Prayer and Patience. The challenge is to be Yourself in a world trying to make you like everyone else. To preserve individuality, we should avoid being a carbon copy or duplicate of someone whom we may admire.

Taking care of the “baccha” inside you….

The child we were once, continues to live inside us influencing every thought, every emotion, every movement and every action. Many of us in adult bodies still react like children, still attached to parents, never having broken free from the attitudes and beliefs acquired in youth. This inner baccha(child) is part of our personality which is playful and spontaneous, having fun and craving to be cared and understood.
Like a real child, the inner baccha is starved of love, warmth and understanding, is easily hurt and may become depressed and withdrawn. Psychologists say that the inner child is a permanent fixture and those who become hurt easily or depressed on an innocent remark are still preserving that inner child demonstrating the traits through their behaviour. Jiddu Krishnamurthy during one of his sermons narrated the story of two monks- One old and the other young. They reached a river bank at sunset and saw a young woman sitting helpless as the last boat had already left. She was frightened too because of the surrounding forest area where wild animals roamed about and came to the river to drink water. Realising her predicament, the elder monk volunteered to carry her across the river, the water being shallow.
After reaching the opposite bank, the Monk put her down and the two monks renewed their conversation while proceeding to the monastery. After a while, the young Monk told the older One: “You should not have carried that woman across the river as you have violated the rules of celibacy”. The elder Monk replied: “I put her down an hour ago but you are still carrying her in your thoughts”. The elder Monk has his aldult mould and the younger one still carried the child within.
We all know that the past is dead but we carry it in our thoughts. Man can change only if the past is detached, forgotten or erased. There are some people who recall and relieve their past days, expand the sorrow and make themselves miserable. We can’t have a better tomorrow if we are thinking about yesterday all the time. There are some who breakaway from the routine and do something innovative and new, which again is the inner child playing games with new ideas.
Sir Julian Huxley said: “It is all too obvious that in the great majority of human beings, the greater part of their possibilities, whether physical, spiritual, intellectual or aesthetic, remains unrealized”. To enjoy a better life, we must focus on our potential, not our limitations and concentrate on what we do well. We must exploit our natural abilities and aptitudes. The world is full of unsuccessful people who have talent but lack confidence and tenacity, who feel that no matter how good they are at something, someone else is bound to be better. But, what prevents this individual to become better than before, higher than before and attract recognition than before? Benjamin Franklin, one of the signatories of the American Declaration of Independence made a list of 17 personal qualities and habits, which he wanted to acquire. He realized that he need not to attempt all the 17 in one go. He worked on one, then another and mastered the 17 habits and completed the entire cycle three times in a year. EPICTETUS wrote: “Nothing great is created suddenly any more than a bunch of grapes. If you say to me that you desire grapes, that requires time. Let it first blossom, bear fruits and then ripen”. Two important qualities essential for man are patience and persistence. Lasting change takes time and when the going gets tough, how much better we feel when we achieve something worthwhile by sticking to it. Thousands of people have talents. But the question is how many of us have the patience to discover it through persistence and staying power? People who take risks invite failure but at the end it is success, when we stay with it. Henry Ford the car-maker said: “Failure is the opportunity to begin again, more intelligently”. When we take the plunge, few feel terrified but within a short time, we are able to do everything which we had set out to do. Confident self-talk helps us feel better to handle problems more easily. Words and sentences that imply that we are helpless and incapable or interpreting that things are worse than they actually are, feeds the person with potentially damaging ammunition creating negative thoughts and negative results”. Issaac Bashevis Singer wrote: “If you keep on saying that things are going to be bad, you have a good chance of being a Prophet”. Two qualities that are essential for bulding a happy and fulfilling life are Prayer and Patience.
The challenge is to be Yourself in a world trying to make you like everyone else. To preserve individuality, we should avoid being a carbon copy or duplicate of someone whom we may admire.

" AAM INSAAN ya I M INSAAN? "

Ye duniya jism faroshi ka bazaar, jung ka maidaan, khooni samundar bankar reh gaya,
Jahan logon ki keemat unke paak dil se nai, unke shaatir dimaag se lagana reh gaya.
Tabhi to khuda bhi is paapi duniya me avatar lene se katra gaya…
Mujhse bola- ki kaise ye duniya satyug se kalyug banker reh gaya?,
Aur tu  aam insaan sirf sochta reh gaya?
Haath par haath dhare sirf dekhta reh gaya…?
Kyun tu kuch na kar saka????
Are jab tera hi ghar….
Ghar se makaan, makaan se khandahar, khandahar se deewaro ka dhancha ban kar deh gaya….
Aur tu e aam insaan sirf sehhta reh gaya?.....
Kuch na kar saka..Yunhi dekhta reh gaya?........
2day India's Republic ya Mari-Public..cause Democracy means Dde-Mohe-Kursi.

" Jab Hakumat pe yakin kho dungaa
  Tab apaney mukkadar ko dosh dunga
  Yeh kya Hifaazat karenge hamaari
  Dekh k lunga fir aankhe band kar lungaa "